Father needs to go to nursing home. He is a veteran and receives social security. Will this be enough for acceptance into a nursing home?
Also, he has a home paid for and my mother lives with him and they are divorced her name is on the home also. What can she do?
Next, your father can qualify for a benefit from the VA called "Aid and Assistance" which could provide about $1800 per month. Go to www.veteranaid.com for details.
Be sure to visit all available facilities in your area and get their costs and policies about payment. If all else fails, you might be able to use Medicaid (but you must qualify). The house won't count as part of his "assets". I don't think Mom plays a roll here, because they are divorced.