She has had 6 back surgeries, cancer, and now something called arachnoiditis which gives you constant pain. I have done all the safety things, grab handles in bath, steps to get into bed, and I bought her a wonderful recliner which is where she spends all of her time, eating sleeping. At this point I have been able to handle everything cooking, laundry, bathing, sorting out pills. It would be great to talk to others in similar situations.
This is a forum for caregivers all over the world though the majority are from here in the US.
It sounds like you're doing a great job with your wife, and are figuring things out as you go along. That's what we've all had to do.
I do hope though that you're also taking good care of yourself and doing things that you enjoy as that is very important when caring for a loved one, because you matter too in this equation.
I wish you well as you continue on this journey with your wife. She is very fortunate to have you.