all, but come around for money which she keeps giving them - in the thousands. I have been coming up a few days a month and see that she is not just grieving, but cognitively impaired. I have spoken to her dr and several experts on elderly and they all say she has dementia - but she won't see a dr so no diagnosis. I helped her get her "affairs" in order and now, somehow she went to a bank and changed everything. I have health POA but not general. I feel she is very vulnerable to being exploited, and not taking care of herself. She has recently turned on me with anger and suspicion - I guess that happens. I don't know what to do. I consulted an attorney and an asst living residence and others - they say to get POA but I can't seem to get her to cooperate on anything at this time. I'm thinking of calling Elder Protective Services for help. Does anyone have any ideas?