We need to sell her house to either self pay for nursing home care or in home care. But if we sell her home, she won't quality for Medicaid for future help. Not really a question, but more of a rant! On top of ALL my other rants - I seem to have rants daily, and sometimes they are here and sometimes they are else where.
An elder law attorney in your state can explain how your loved one could access Medicaid funded home care hours. By complying with the transfer and asset regulations you can arrange ownership of the home itself so that it will not disqualify an application for assistance. The elder law attorney who understands your circumstances and the regulations in your state can show you the best approaches.