His dad is deaf and now needs much assistance. He cannot afford AL and husband is not yet ready for his dad to be in a SNF. I know a SNF would be hard emotionally for his dad, but this is what he needs, truly. FIL is 85, deaf and doesn’t take care of his hygiene, his pills, not able to work the cochlear device well, not interested in assistive device phone system. We have him living in IL with caregiver support, with also max assist from us to the tune of several visits per week and we take him to all his many, many medical and specialty appts. I am sick of this. The rest of the family is refusing involvement because FIL has poor compliance and is so much work. Other family is all out of state and never call or inquire about him, even when we have asked them to do so. We went from never seeing this person to seeing him all the time and I am frustrated and angry! Just venting here!