Am the only caregiver as am the only daughter. I have tried getting her into active which nothing and I mean nothing does she want to do.. She wants me to give her more attention than I already do. We can not have a normal converstion yet any where I go when I can she wants to know where I am. Am being told she could leave 10yrs this way she is now 86. And I do not know at this point what to do with her.
Caring for someone with dementia is very challenging and tiring. I suggest you find a caregivers' support group and join it. Also read up on dementia so you know a little better what to expect.
Your mother did not ask for this any more than you did. It is very sad for both of you. You may need in-home help with her care, and eventually you may need to place her in a care center.
Hugs to you!