My heart's been very heavy lately. I want to stop caregiving for my mom. Im tired, my body aches, even with taking care of myself by eating right and exercising. I feel trapped between a rock and a hard place. If I put her someplace, her attitude could cause someone to physically harm her. We've all heard the nh horror stories. If I keep her home, I run myself into the ground and give up whats left if my life. These last few years having been trying to say the least... just needed to vent I guess.
Glad you are happy and were able to find these adult day centers in your area. Please keep us posted.
Good luck, my friend. Sending all my thoughts and prayers. Take care of yourself. And let us know if Washington State works out better.
Prayers Anerhill. Right now.
I'm very sorry to hear how you feel. I know its hard. Sending you love and hugs. I know we all feel trapped at one point or another. Please know there is always help. Don't be afraid to talk to a social worker or family doctor. There are resources in the community and through church.
Try to look for respite care or more home care. Start visiting nursing homes. There are good ones out there.
Be kind to yourself. Please know you are not alone. I hope you can find the right care for your mom and give yourself a much needed respite.