My mom who lives with me is 82 we have good days but when she gets upset she has what i call an episode had one this morning....my day off from work i dread my days off i took her to the library then went to get some new meds for the back pain she is having then we get home im worn out then d he starts moaning and groaning now she has a toothache...i love my mom i do everything i can for her. But its always something and under my breath i said that she who cant hear anything without her ear aide heard me and she got very angry then she cried i feel like a awful daughter now im the baby older sister and brother who do nothing...... im getting so overwhelmed and depressed
That was 2 years ago and now, she is quite healthy, happy and well groomed. She is 95. She played my sister like a fiddle.
What happens to your mom, if she outlives you? I think that you need to make that happen, now. Good luck to you. You need a life, too.