what do you do when you have been caregiver of parent, they resent it and scream abuse. you are turned in to adult protective services and guess what they hold the axe because they tend to believe parent. and parent can fool you for a little while, but live with them and you see the whole picture. how can a doctor even determine what goes on until they have been there. my mom can tell you she is up cooking and lie to the world and make people believe her. it is so dishearting.