It seems like its harder and harder for my mom to be happy for me when good things happen. Sometimes I feel like she is directing her anger towards me. It hurts because for most of my adult life she has been so supportive. I don't know how to handle this side of her.
Sometimes a person with dementia feels bad, but doesn't know why. They don''t know where it hurts, and they don't quite realize THAT they hurt. Find out what you can safely give her for pain, and give her one or two. If that improves her attitude, then keep her on a low dose.
Lots of people who were nasty all their lives have become nicer people with antidepressants or antipsychotics. Again, talk to her doctor. Start with a low dose, and don't give up if the first one or two don't help.
If she's being mean to you, she's unhappy. If medication can make her happier, why not? You don't have to tell her it's for her mood. Call it a new heart pill.
God bless your sweet, gentle heart, and try not to take it personally. The Captain is right.
Sonnybee, why do you think she's resentful ? I think they get jealous that we still have a life. I think many people have regrets and feel they missed something.
Anyway, it's not very nice. Loving parents want to see their children happy and prosperous at all ages. xo