My Mom's companion of 13 years walked out on her April 29th. My sister and I went to visit her to take her shopping, when we got bcak to her house, he was gone. He left a note but, it was not a note that explained to my Mom why he left. My Mom forgot about the note and what it said a day after he left. Now, My Mom has been caliing him daily, wants him back and she cannot stop crying about it. He called me last week and told me my Mom has been calling her. I told him he may need to change his phone number. He said no, he does not mind if she calls him. He also mentioned that when we take her back home ( she lives 3 hours away and we know she cannot live alone) he would be more than happy to do her yard work 3 days a week ( as he loves doing it) and he also want to come over to my Mom's house and take us to lunch Friday.
My issue is this, is this a good idea for her to see him in hopes he moves back in with her? She has been on Seroquel for 2 weeks and this med has made such a change in her behvior. Could letting her see him push her over the ledge again? I feel so bad because she really does love him and misses her so badly. He also has noticed her behavior change...I do not know what to do...
Any insight???
I am thinking maybe we can use him to help us convience her she needs to sell and move..He moved into an AL in arond the block from her. He is 100% in his right mind he just thought it easier to live in an AL than buy a home at his age.
I just do not know what to do here......