As Mom's caregiver, I have the pleasure of helping her with her shower each night. She procrastinates, telling me, "I need a treat" or "just a few more minutes" which turns into 30 minutes or so. I really just want some time to myself...then I feel like I'm being really selfish, as she's at day care while I'm at work. Any suggestions? I feel like this should be on my terms, am I being selfish?
It is fair to do things on your terms and timeline
dont mean to sound snotty , its just that your imposing your view on someone much older with her own ideas that have worked for a long time.
i wear the same work jeans for 3-4 days at a time. when i put on clean ones and fire up the stone saw and im covered in dust in 30 seconds i have to wonder why the he** i put on clean clothes this morning..