I have been searching for months for the appropriate placement and/ or in home care to no avail. Financial issues are the problem. I did find a nice foster home very close to where I live. For now mom will have to share a room until a private room is available. She absolutely refuses. What options do I have?
Mom is not going to volunteer. You need to tell her whatever it takes to get her there. Perhaps the house needs painting, fumigating, etc. True story, my aunts house flooded and that is why she went into care when she did.