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My parents recently moved from an assisted living apartment to the building next door for two memory care rooms. The facility did not let me move any items; they insisted due to COVID that their maintenance person and staff had to do the entire move. I typed up four pages of instructions. They did not follow most of these. Many things did not get moved that should have. Many things got moved that should not have. It's been 10 days and my Dad only has one pair of pants, for example. I provided boxes, tape, and bins for the move. They are still "working on" getting all the items from the old apartment boxed up and put into a garage stall so I can pick them up. I've been waiting for days with no access to things and my Dad has a big list of items he is missing. Razor, address book, etc. These are all things that were on the list to be brought over - but they were too busy to look at the list, evidently. I will be moving my parents out of this facility completely in about a month and I am wondering what legal recourse I might have to force them to let me have immediate access to the rooms to do the move. Their rooms are at the end of a hall near an exterior door. I could don PPE and be in and out of the rooms without going near another resident. Or, screens could be removed from the first floor window and everything could come out the window. I worry that if they insist on doing the move themselves that we will lose many of my parents' things. Any advice?

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sis moved into LTC last fall. community insisted all items be tagged with person name-which the facility did. I dropped off 4-5 small haul boxes will all sis items-about 2 weeks of outfits, undies, pj, robe, coats. took weeks for them to tag and put in her room. almost immediately things began to disappear-one nearly new pair of leather sneakers $40 a pair of leather sandals about $50 and other items went to laundry and never came back. I discovered on my first visit after move in-pre covid days-people wander into her room and help themselves sometimes doing an even exchange for one of their crappy items for something nearly new from Sis closet. Sis closet did not lock and hallway door did not lock. I checked her closet most weeks for missing items kept thinking they would turn up eventually-NO. I complain to staff ask them to look. listed and photos of all the items updated as more items went missing. time I come to take sis to the doctor she has no shoes. I tell someone she really needs her shoes. A few mins later they turn up with the shoes. They will not let me search other rooms for sis stuff. Social worker says he will look-is a load of baloney. then tells me I signed a paper at admissions say I would not hold them responsible for damage or missing items. Missing item tally $800 and damaged items $1000. Ombudsman says they are not allowed to ask family to sign off on damages etc. I have filed a complaint with the state for all the crap that went on in this place including injuries, lost weight-30 pounds. over medicating horrible food. We finally got sis to new place during early covid. I photo all sis items list and name on all of it including her shoes. I have not been inside the new place due to covid. Sis does turn up in other people's clothes sometimes inspite of admission telling me they keep each person laundry separated.....I have not found a way to keep items from disappearing.
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