I have full time job and running business and suffer financially. My mother 86 has dementia. Her sister is 80 is not happy at old age home and wants to come and stay with me as well. Financially it will help, but should i do this. I have a carer during the day from Monday to Friday till 16h00.
Does your aunt have her own children? Why are they not involved?
That is ok, you are taking care of mom, you cannot take on more.