My uncle passed away a year and half ago and my aunt didn't tell anyone in the family until almost 4 months goes by. My aunt was diagnosed with dementia 4 yrs ago and has no relatives living and wants me to be in charge of all her assets, property, house which is paid for and she has a living trust. She asked me for all my personal information to give to her attorney and I did this. I'm very loving of her, we have always been very close but she seems confused about how the trust is suppose to work. Do I sound pushy or wrong for asking her if she knows what she is doing?
I wouldn't necessarily let her lack of understanding be a deterrence to your acceptance, but rather an indication that it's appropriate for another meeting with her attorney before anything is finalized.