Bedrail suggestions..dad transfers from wheelchair to bed, then slides off blaming mattress not level.Doesn't want new bed or $99 bedrail. Found Stander folding bedrail $99 that has strap for boxspring which is needed since mattress is not heavy (twin size adjustable bed). Dad says that is too expensive (think he wants a fisher-price toddler bedrail!). Claims his mattress is not level. (It is) So I suggested a new bed. That is a definite NO. Tired of going over at 3am to pick him up off the floor. Won't call 911 because he "doesn't want to bother those guys". Husband and I velcroed his mattress to box spring with heavy duty Velcro so mattress slippage is not the problem. He just isn't sitting fully on the side of the bed so slides off and ends up on floor and can't get up. Husband was also looking at the Stander tension floor to ceiling pole to help him with wheelchair to chair or bed transfer.
Any suggestions?
Husband says he is convinced dad just disagrees with me no matter what I say, do, buy, try, etc. Do I need dr. to get occupational therapist to come out?