He is alert, but unable to walk. He's on Medicaid. We live in Fl and have signed up With a statewide Medicaid managed care program, called sunshinehealth. They are telling me that they will provide a lot of help if I take him out of the home and bring him home to live. Have you any experience with them, I would like to take them home, but certainly don't want to ever have to bring back. Can I trust Sunshie Health and their promises or offers..
What often happens for AL that take Medicaid diversion funding for beds, is that once they are able to get their beds filled without those Medicaid beds, they do not re-enroll to be a diversion participant; so those Medicaid beds go away. I can foresee (due to my 2015 edition crystal ball! lol) the same pattern happening with community based programs who get diversion $. If the vendor can essentially cherry-pick their client base after the initial roll-out (when they will take all comers to get their #'s), they are going to do it. That is how they are going to be profitable. Yes Sunshine may sound wonderful, but will hubby be guaranteed renewal for increasing levels of care? I think this is really important to know with a binding agreement by the vendor. If your elder or spouse is a client that requires a lot of nursing time (as those who are bed-fast often do) AND the vendor has other clients who are more medication & dementia management types (so lots easier work) which one would you renew or give the cancellation notice to?
There is a really good and heartbreaking story in the NYT on these issues. It's within the article "Fighting to Honors a Father's Wish" by Nina Bernstein. Ran 9/25/14. The "More than Aides Can Handle" part is especially telling. Over 1000 comments from all over the US & many of which detail spouses or children's experience of essentially being unable to renew at home care. Like the one who lived on 3rd floor and the agency didn't renew service as the walk-up time cut into their allotted time paid for to the subcontractor for services.It is quite the read.
So it really isn't fair to judge them by how they would cover 24 hours. That is not what they are offering. If something took the at-home caregiver out of the picture, the disabled person would be transferred to a care center, not provided 24-hour care in the home.
This program is NOT about leaving a loved one entirely in the hands of a managed care provider. It is about accepting help so that someone can provide caregiving services in a home.
(Some of them feel like 36 hours, I know.)
It might be a good idea is to approach this company and describe your husband's prospective living arrangements as though you weren't there. If they're so keen to transfer him home (I am intentionally leaving aside the emotional pluses of that for both of you, just for the moment) let's see how their calculations stack up when the care plan doesn't include the - what? 40? 50? 60? more? - hours of caregiving that you will be adding in each week, free and gratis.
God forbid, but of course it is always possible that something really would take you out of the picture. How happy would you be to leave him completely in their hands?
For that I have no opinion, as I do not live in Florida. I think that since it is tied in with the Medicaid program, that there must be some sort of government oversight. There would be recourse if they didn't live up to their claims. If you want to bring your husband home, and you feel comfortable with his care and the management of caregivers in your home, then I say go for it. If you have a home that, with a few modifications, could easily accommodate his wheelchair and a hospital bed, then I definitely say go for it.
I did go to the Sunshine Health website and looked at what they have to offer. They do look like they cover all the possibilities. Good luck.
My son is currently wheelchair bound, due to an accident. At first when he got out of rehab center we kept someone with him around the clock. When he got good at transferring to the wheelchair and back into bed, when there was a ramp in place and he had practiced getting out of the house on his own, we all relaxed some and now he spends the time while his wife is at work on his own in the house.
1waples, after your husband is up and dressed and in his chair, would it be safe to leave him alone for short periods, so you could run errands, maybe even meet a friend for coffee once in a while? Will Sunshine provide a life-alert system, and would that be useful? How about a ramp? How would you get hubby out in an emergency?
How old are you both? How is your health? Are you sad that your husband is not home with you, or is it kind of a relief to be able to visit him where others take care of him?
As for the what-ifs, I'm not so sure I'd let that drive the decision. What if it doesn't work out and he has to go back? Then he has to go back. He is mentally cogent now -- what if he develops dementia? Then he will need a different kind of care that you may or may not be able to provide at home. What if you don't try this? Will you always have a regret that it might have worked well? None of us know what the future holds. Consider the possibilities, but focus mostly on the present as you make your decision.
I would like to point out, emphatically if I may, that caring for a spouse is a whole different ballgame entirely than caring for a parent. And the factors that go into deciding on the level of care one is able/willing to provide are quite different in the two situations.
There is still a limit to what one can safely and reasonably do, no matter who one is caring for. But I think our perception of the limits and of what we are willing to do can be quite different when it is a spouse we are considering. I cared for my husband at home for 10 years. What I was willing to do to keep him with me would simply not have been the same if we were talking about a parent.
1waples, do consider the limits of your own strength and patience and stamina. Do consider the safety issues here. But also give yourself permission to factor in the love and commitment you have to your husband. That has to be part of the decision as well.
Please think very carefully on this. FYI, my dad finally had a stroke. And he's now bedridden. I'm starting all over again with him. I see another 10 years of this.
And what happens if after a few months you realize moving him home was a mistake... how would your husband feel being placed back into a nursing home, probably not the same one as that bed would be reassigned to someone else. He would lose out on all the friends he had made at the previous nursing home. He would have to learn a whole new staff, and the place may not be as nice as where he was before. I would think twice about moving him back home.
Now what if you need extra hours? Just what is Sunshinnny going to charge you? I bet they have a whole additional fee structure that they can provide. And it is going to be all private pay, I'd bet.
Get the name of the MD too. Then google it to see if: he is the medical director for a NH or a couple of NH; or perhaps the medical director of a hospice or a couple of hospices. If he is, then the level of care your spouse is going to get will be just cursory. I bet they will do the "go to the ER" for anything serious and either you have to get him into the car or you call for ambulance (which Medicare may or may not pay for). Ask to get a copy of the contract in advance too and have a couple of others read it. If in the contract it does not list the MD by name, tell them you are going to place his name and state ID # in the contract. See what kind of blowback you get for that.
Other states are doing this. There was a long article in the New York Times on a daughter and her dad on this very subject in November. What happens often it that the agency starts all rosy. But for clients who need a lot of care, who really need nursing services rather than drug dispensing & hygiene care, well those are just to expensive for the agency to have around. They will discharge him from their plan. You need to look at the contract to see what is their ability to do this.
Many states have been offering programs to divert elderly from needing Nursing Home care -- the most expensive level of care -- for years. Others are getting on the bandwagon and trying more creative and cost-effective ways to address the needs of an aging population. Sounds like that is what Florida is trying to do.
Whenever politics are involved it is hard to know what you can count on long term. What if the Affordable Care Act is repealed. What happens after the next election in your state? But a good program, with high usage, would be pretty hard to scrap altogether.
You need to try to think back very thoroughly to the time when you decided you needed to place your husband. Would a hospital bed have helped a lot? Would having someone come in the morning and the evening to handle the going to bed/getting up routines? If you hadn't had to haul your husband to the clinic but a doctor came to you, would that have helped a lot?
Hubby can't walk. Would having someone help with the transfer to and from the wheelchair morning and night make that manageable? What about bathroom trips? Is he incontinent? How would you handle that if he were home.
Can you spend an entire day with him in the nursing home, and observe all the assistance he gets from aides now? Could you do all those things? Do you want to? Does your husband sleep well through the night?
For most of the people in my caregivers support group, having to place a spouse in a care center was absolutely heartbreaking. If there was any way they could have gotten enough support to keep the loved one at home, they would have -- and many tried it for months past the point where it was safe. There are some situations, especially with dementia, where keeping a loved one in a private home without three shifts of help available is simply not feasible or safe.
If you think this through as carefully as you can and decide that you want to try to have husband at home with more support for you and that you can do it safely, then I wish you full success!
I know it sounds very tempting, but I personally would think long and hard. Especially if your husband is happy or at least content where he's at. Tough decision for you, good luck.
I would look at the online information and then ask a lot of questions before agreeing. The one in your state could be different. Good luck.
But ... Why did you need to place your husband in the first place? I know that is not a step you took lightly. What specifically will Sunshinehealth do to solve those particular issues?