It's so nice that we all have some place to vent or talk about what we all going through. My husband and I just got marry last September, his mom got sick three years ago with pneumonia when she came home the doctor said until she got stronger. She's going to need 24 hours care she had some home health aids but she complain about them all the time so my husband got sick of the complaining and got rid of them. It left him and I taking care of her he works nights I work day as she is much better now. She still needs some one around to give meds and lunch dinner all she do is watch tv all day from 12 to 1130 midnight. I told my husband we have to change her bed time bc I get up 430 every morningfor work she made a fuss about it I told my husband I don't care bc I need sleep my health is more important than her watching tv. I can see it's taking a toll on my husband he get very frustrated as my self I'm at the end of my rope with this. I love my husband but can't do it no more we have our own place but we stay at his mother apartment. It never suppose to be permanent but my mother in law make my husband feel guilty bc he was always deployed before but he been around for 4 years now so my questions is how do I tell my husband it's enough we have to start our own lives? I don't want to have to make him choose help. Oh my mother in law is 84 we are 49 and 47
Maybe he will follow.
This won't require a lot of conversation. Let him work it out.