Hi, my name is Lena, I am new to the Forum.
My mother is 90 years old with dementia. I've signed up with a Medicaid
agency to take care of her. She got 8 hours of care Monday-Friday (40 hours a week). I am taking care of her the rest of the time. She has no other family.
Now my doctor says I need surgery ASAP and may have to stay in the hospital for 2 or 3 days. I've asked the agency to assign more hours to her for these 3 days, but they said no. Is it OK for them to say no?
I don't have money for private care and have no idea what to do.
Any advice will be greatly appreciated. Thank you!
Thank you for you reply, JoAnn29.
Lena
Lena
You might want to ask them if it would be possible to use all the hours at one time so that for 3 full days that would take up the hours for about 3 weeks. BUT you would have NO caregiver for 3 weeks. That is a long time if you will still be recovering.
Is mom on Hospice?
If so you have a GREAT benefit with Hospice. Medicare, Medicaid and most other Insurance will cover about 1 week of Respite a year for a Hospice patient.
If mom is not on Hospice you might want to check to see if she would be eligible.
Other option other than private pay for the caregivers you would need while you are recovering would be to place mom in Respite and that also would be private pay. Most facilities will do a respite stay.
Lena
Have you asked an agency rep why they've declined to provide staff for more hours?
Lena
Your mom may need to be placed temporarily in a NH in order to get the care she needs while you are incapacitated.
Lena