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He has zero rights to keep us from her, yet he still does. We have talked to mom and she says it's just easier to let him have his way. So we don't fight him. He does not like to have mother have visitors when he is not home (or asleep) so we respect that.
As it is, none of us sibs are involved in mom's life, as per HER choice now. YB has control issues with mom and he is 'paying her back' for what he felt was a very subpar childhood. She was very neglectful as a mother---but we all grew up and realized it wasn't healthy or normal and let it go. YB is definitely abusing his role. Mom can make her own decisions, but always runs everything past YB before she acts. I think she thinks POA means he's the boss of her.