My mother has a massive stroke in September 2014, and has been in a nursing home straight after a month in the hospital, she is completely blind and paralyzed on her entire left side, she is bed ridden and is unable to do anything for herself, Dad has always made very rash spur of the moments decisions , and says he is taking her home no matter what any of us have to say about it. The thing is none of us are capable of being with her 24/7 as we (her children) have small children of our own, i know dad isn't able to care for her by himself and this has me so worried .
But the staff will keep mom there if given the orders. They will be the bad guys, and say, "orders are to keep her here at all times." They may say to take it up with the guardian, but dad may forget what they said by then.
I agree it's in your mom's best interest to stay there. Is there an option for dad to go there too?