Mom agrees to move into assisted living and leave the house. She can only take some things but what / how/ when to start getting rid of the rest of it. She has dementia and can't live alone how to handle siblings that are ready to take and sell her stuff right away ? Don't want her to get upset to see the house torn apart / she might not want to leave the house if she comes home for a visit
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I ask because if Medicaid is in the picture now or in the future, that will have an impact on what can/should happen to her possessions. If there is no chance that Medicaid will become involved, then you have more options.
Once we have this information we can hopefully be helpful.
Is she in assisted living now, or is that a future plan? Certainly don't start dismantling the house while she is still living there!