Is Memory Care Facility the right term? She's been diagnosed with ALZ and is under constant care ... been there about 2 mos now @ 78 yrs of age. My daughter and I don't visit Wife/Mother at the same time .... No problem involved, we don't think its a good idea right now ... too much confusion. Some people say take flowers .... some say decorate her room with familiar items ... pics, etc. Some say ...go for a walk ... We'd appreciate any advice , experiences, etc. TIA
I even took my laptop and played videos from You tube of singers that I knew she used to love like The Osmonds, Carpenters, Beatles, etc., but, she didn't seem to enjoy them at all. She wasn't able to focus. That was disappointing, but, I do play things on the radio and for awhile the music seemed to appeal to her. Now, I'm not so sure, but, I'm still trying to keep up with her favorite music.