He wants to move back to another state where he vacationed often. He wants to spend, spend and spend money all the time. He is trying to get away from me and the doctors so he can be left alone to do what he wants. He will not get away from us of course but this is an everyday battle.
About once a month, here in southern AZ. an elderly patient will wander away and get lost, with devastating consequences. My FIL even got the tractor started, when he was visiting his daughter.
What facilities do you have locally, where your father could have 24/7 care?