they moved in with me in May..it was supposed to be a temporary solution to a huge financial crisis combined with the added difficulties of my moms progressing alzheimers/dimentia. because of finances are very limited to what they can afford. Plus my moms condition is worsening. but now, they are comfortable and i think my dad wants to stay forever. problem is, i don't want them to. i don't mind them here but i don't want to live with them indefinitely. I don't have a separate entrance, kitchen or apartment as i live in a 2 floor apartment to begin with, with my husband and children. so we really share space, I don't want to hurt my dad at all or make him feel alone. and so far weve been getting along fine so it's not a question of that. Assisted living with nursing facilities on campus seem like the best option going forward to get the best care..I just don't know how to get my dad to stop thinking it's the most "extreme" thing to do "to" him and my mom.