Makes dad feel responsible. What legal steps can I take even if my dad does not approve. He will soon have no money and will lose everything. Is there an agency that I can contact in PA.?
My brother asks for money for himself and for his 24 yr. old who does not work as well. and my father feels like he is losing control of the situation. He is 85 and becoming forgetful and they know it. They both live with him. I am POA and my name is on everything of my fathers. I need to move on this. Please help.
Take dad's checkbook away, cut off the flow of money to the brother. Give dad enough cash on hand to make him feel like he has some control but not enough to feel the pinch if he gives it to your brother. Take his debit card away, his credit cards, everything that will allow your brother a path to the money.