He never consumed alcohol til recently, but he lies about it. My mother is in a wheelchair and suffers from asphasia due to a severe stroke and car accident. I'm concerned he's out of control and cannot care for her or himself and I don't know what to do! Please advise me.
Are we talking one bottle of beer a day or many? A half a bottle of energy drink or a few? What do you mean by "out of control?"
I like purple's suggestion for having a talk with him about his needs, his health, and perhaps seeing his doctor.
But all you can do is try.