I am moms POA. My sister (who lives far away) thinks I should put it in my will that mom should go to her if something should happen to me. I'm not sure that is where that info. should go. Denny lives with us (significant other/caregiver) of course I wouldn't expect him to keep mom in the event something happens to me. Any suggestions? Thank you
If your mothers lawyer deems that she is of sound mind a "second" backup POA can be appointed to anyone your mother wishes to appoint to as long as the appointee is in agreement. If she is not ... well this is what lawyers are for. Let them tell you which way to proceed.