My 96 year old mother in law broke her hip about 2 years ago. She made a pretty good recovery but has since been prone to falls. She has fortunately not suffered anymore fractures but the last time she fell she was using her cane. Since that time we have insisted that she use her walker. It seems like she is much less mobile and we’re wondering if using the walker is inhibiting her mobility. She is also showing signs of dementia and we are struggling with her nutrition since her appetite is very poor. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. We live in a rural area and many of the support systems aren’t available here.
I am writing from the patients perspective. I was diagnosed with a form of Muscular Dystrophy at the age of 40 where in between age circa 8-40 I was told there was nothing the matter with me. Finally on my 40th birthday, I was told I had M.D. My Ortho doctor recommended I get a walker to use on days when walking was difficult, inclement weather, or very long distance. He told me not to be using it everyday, but if I needed it use it. That was 21 years ago and rarely have I used the walker, but I've not been shy about using it especially when traveling and walking in unfamiliar locations.
Four years ago I was diagnosed with early onset ALZ and I use the walker more often. I have suffered a handful of falls in the last year, no major injuries, but I am now less stable. I'd think a very senior citizen, should use the walker for their own safety. I hope if I begin to rebel against using it as I further decline, that my family will insist upon me using it for my own safety. I hope this is helpful.
Please consider talking to her primary care provider about her diet and strength/mobility issues. She/she can give consults for physical therapy and dietary evaluation. Specialists in those fields can give you good information and instructions to help manage those problems.
When able to walk unaided and with the rollator, she did NOT walk much. Her preference was to sit and read (newspapers, magazines, sales flyers.) Several other residents would walk the loop several times after meals, but not mom. Staff even held simple exercise "classes" to keep the residents active. Not mom. Nope, I did that for years, I don't need to do it now!
I do believe a combination of not walking and having a few tumbles lead to weakness and fear of falling, so she is now in a wheelchair (refused to stand and walk without help.) Her falls were just that - little tumbles. Nothing injured, nothing broken, just went down like a Weeble.
Do the best you can to encourage her to walk - take her outside with the walker and each time go a little farther. If there is something she esp likes to eat, a treat of some kind, reward her with that each time. It is sad that mom did this to herself - she used to harp on dad that if you don't use it, you'll lose it, but hasn't heeded her own advice! The fresh air and exercise is good for your MIL (start slow and easy!) and could also perk up her appetite. If she isn't active, her body will have less demand for food. Make the walk fun! Look for things, pretty flowers, birds, other critters, etc. Praise any progress she makes!
Look at Sir Thomas Moore (former captain in WWII) in England - after his surgery, he was walking with his walker to build up strength. He decided to make a challenge to raise money for the NHS, expecting maybe 1K pounds, and he kept going because the donations kept coming in! He turned 100 during his "walk" to raise money and has raised over 32 million!! He was also knighted by the Queen, Now his goal is to be able to drive again!!! :-D Can't keep a good man down!
While it wouldn't hurt to use Boost or Ensure to augment her "meals", perhaps asking her what she would prefer to eat, no matter what it is, might entice her to eat more. Often as they get older, sweets play a big part. At 96, I wouldn't worry about her having too many sweets, so long as she's eating (and you can combine the sweet with something healthy!)
I guess for your mom, her back is second to falling so it may be a good idea at her age to be safer and use the walker.
Take care.
Another possible reason is that she's scared to fall again? She's stressed?try to arrange a few walk with her using her walker regularly,to help her regain confidence..ask the physiotherapist about that too :if he/she can evaluate her walk using the walker.
My mom Wanted an “upright walker”for a year. Finally justified the cost (it it $5-6 hundred dollars) and I figured that I’d “let” her buy it It (She can afford it but I’m always skeptical of the things “designed “ to help the elderly. & to “quit hearing about “this walker”
since she’d had it it is better for her posturE but... it it larger to put in an suv & a bit more difficult to maneuver in a home. However, she will use her cane more often to get around. Which is another issue because that make ME nervous watching her navigate. Sometimes I wish I couldn’t see how confident she is, if you know what I mean.
Dementia and nutrition are closely linked as well. Could be a number of factors contributing to the decline. Perhaps smaller, more frequent meals, starting with something sweet can trigger appetite. Also, more physical activity will likely mean better appetite. Also, one thing we tend to forget when our lives are so hectic - eating is a social activity. Sit down together and share a meal, see if she can help to participate in the preparation somehow, talk and visit. We all do better this way too.
Good luck,
Walkers' legs do tend to get stuck in tile. You need to use golfballs on the end.
Went to Mass and the usher found me the best seat on the end of the isle. He had the communion servers bring communion to me instead of me walking up the isle as usual.
Told my husband that I didn’t mind relying on a walker for a short term stint! LOL
Those scooters are very expensive for people who need them.
My mom loves the rollater because of the seat and storage but she still falls.
I would take all the below information seriously. Knee braces can support weak knees and some have springs. A thoracic brace may help but don’t make too tight or leave on all day. Tumeric or other for pain.
I hope some of this may help. George