Our dad is 85 yrs. is very hard of hearing, has a pacemaker, is on koumadin, has diabetes, very much set in his way and absolutely does not like changes. My sister and I have been slowing cleaning his house, packing up our deceased mother;s items and have gotten rid of alot dad has collected from his tenants from his 4 boarding house he rents to men. He is mean, especially to my sister who stands up to him and today has told her to shut up, get in her car and go home. This was the end of a disagreement they had before they left his home. My brother stays away and does not do anything for our dad. Us girls just feel like giving up but we know that is not the right thing to do