I feel like my social life is ruined! I have grandchildren, I can't go to my grandson's baseball games because my mother can't be left alone. I am only 50 and like to go out with friends but can't afford to pay for help all the time. I really hate to get out of bed everyday!
Carol
Because you mentioned the expense of hiring a caregiver, I'm assuming your mom doesn't have a lot of financial resources? Go to your county office for aging and see what services they have available for your mom. If you haven't already, you should see if she qualifies for Medicaid in the event that skilled nursing becomes necessary.
Be proactive and guard your own quality of life. The "Golden Years" aren't the end of our lives when we need the help of others just to get through the day and we sit in front of the TV to pass the time. The real Golden Years are what you're missing out on right now. You should be having the pleasure of sitting in the bleachers, cheering for your grandson.
Get help.
I understand. You are not alone. Hang in there.