She has always been a complainer and negative. I don't think I can change her. Her caregivers at the facility are now complaining to me about her attitude. I am the only child living locally and oversee her needs. I am afraid the administrator will request that I move her to another facility since they can't seem to please her with anything. Please help.
Most of the residents in assisted living don't want to be there because they miss being in their own homes or living with their grown children. They feel if they complain long enough that they will get to go back "home". And they feel they can still live on their own without any trouble, of course we all know that isn't the case any more.
Has your Mom bonded with any of the other residents? Bet the gals all sit around complaining to each other :)