Help! I am the devil I hear my father saying that to the caretaker. I resent him so much. I know what's right and wrong, but it's so hard. He is always the victim. I have four other siblings that haven't been around in 3 years, I gave up my personal life to care for my father who treats me like crap. The only thing that saves me is I have a full time job. I need advice on how to deal with the mental games.
Having Narc parents, I know there is no reward in putting myself in their firing line. So I have clearly set and stated boundaries for both of them. I refuse to accept their abuse.
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