I am trying my hardest to get my mother into a nursing home. I can not take care of her its real hard to care for someone who don't want your help. She fights me on everything. I have done all the things I was told to do by my social worker, and nothing. I will tell everyone this is the hardest thing I have ever done. Everyone tells you what you should do and what I am doing wrong but are not here 24/7. I am, I try to tell them but I am the bad one so I stop talking to them and that was my sister, I just don't know what to do next!!!! thanks for letting me vent.
You really have your hands full especially since your Mom has Alzheimer's/Dementia [per your profile]. Yes, it is probably time to see if you can get Mom into a skilled nursing home.
If your Mother cannot budget for the cost of a nursing home, then check with your State Medicaid office to see if Mom can apply and be approved. If yes, then Medicaid will place Mom in a nursing home and pay for her room/board and costs. It's worth checking into.