Im in north Mississippi and my father has been through cancer treatment blatter removal has glocoma and diabetes over the last decade and I have been doing daily activities (cooking cleaning driving and things) for him and 8 heard some people get paid to be a family caregiver is that so?
The link below may help you to word your request using the terms the people that you are working with expect to hear.
https://www.agingcare.com/articles/activities-of-daily-living-why-this-measure-matters-186853.htm
(If he needs help with toileting and continence, don’t let them get too distracted by cooking and cleaning.)
https://www.joingivers.com/how-to-get-paid-caregiver/mississippi#:~:text=Veteran%20Aid%20%26%20Attendance%20Pension%20Benefit,including%20to%20caregiving%20family%20members.
If you are speaking about being compensated by the state with Medicaid funds that's a whole other much more complicated issue.
I would, if money is tight and you can't consult an attorney to check on your state's rules, consider calling the following AARP number. They have a volunteer program in which you leave your callback number and someone in the know for your area calls back at a time of your choosing to discuss with you organizations and programs available. They may be able to direct you in this question. Number is 888-281-0145. Just noted it in this week's AARP magazine so if you get a good result let us know.
And finally you will get little compensation, if any. You would be better to get your own job and to have your Dad placed in facility care as far as your own present and future well being.