My mom has declined a lot! She hardly speaks & really struggles to think of words. She sleeps all the time. Can’t get out bed, not eating a lot. In my heart I feel she won’t last much longer but I’m not a medical professional. What should I do? Thank you. This group is truly a godsend.
If she is your Team should be there more often if she is "actively dying"
If she is not on Hospice contact the one of your choice ASAP and get them in there. They will make sure she is comfortable and they will support you.
I think it is sad when doctors do not refer to Hospice earlier. Family and patients miss out on so much help and support.
Most people wait until the very end before they bring hospice on board, but there are advantages on bringing them on board sooner than later.
I would call your local hospice agency and have them come out and do an evaluation ASAP. Most states don't require a doctors recommendation anymore, so you can just call them yourself.
And remember, hospice will be covered under your moms Medicare 100%, including any and all needed equipment, supplies, and medications. They will also have a nurse come once a week to start, to check moms vitals and such and aides to come about twice a week to bathe her even if she's in a facility.
Wishing you and your mom the very best.