My boyfriend is in nursing home and his family lives 800 miles away and visits only twice a year. I am his only visitor and he depends on me for everything. I'm old too and very tired but he doesn't understand that. He wants me there at least 3 days a week for 2 - 3 hours each visit. What can I do to visit less?
Like willie said, you do what you want. If the 3x a week is Ok but its the 2 to 3 hours, cut back on the hours. If its the days cut back to 2 staying how long you are comfortable with.
He is BF not your husband. I don't think the relationship is going to go anywhere. 😊
(And please turn off your caps lock, all caps is considered shouting and besides that has been proven more difficult to read)