Great grandma is 88, has a little dog she forgets about, forgets to cook, get very angry for no reason, I've been living with her, but she refuses to let me help, Its all I want to do. Grandma took her car away since she had been driving without a license. Both a home health nurse and social worker agree she should go into a home. But, she DOES NOT want to go. How do we make it work? She refuses help, our last option is a nursing home. How do we get her there?
Good luck to great grandma and grandma and you!!!!
Are you home all day, or do you work or go to school? If you are absent, how does she get along? This could go on another 5 to 10 years. Are you planning to stay there that long?
Is it her home you both live in?
It sounds like she either needs help in her home, or needs to be where help is readily available. And it sounds like she doesn't want either. This is a very hard situation.
Please give a few more details and maybe someone will have more specific responses.