My grandmother moved in with me almost 2 years ago and I hate it. Why she is currently living with me is complicated, but mainly no one else wanted to do it so I stepped up. I regret that decision every single day. She is a terrible person, she never liked me so I don't know what I was thinking trying to make this work. My mother is her main caregiver and she lives in an attached mother in law apartment. But my grandmother is in my side of the home. She does not have enough money to go to a home and no family member is willing to take her in and they all live so far away they can't even help. I am loosing my mind, I have children who are teenagers and are dealing with the stress she brings and they don't need that in their lives. Really I just need to vent. I know I am stuck with her until she dies and thinking about that makes me so depressed and angry. Anyone who is a caregiver to a rotten selfish parent I feel for you, This is hard. And I am very close to kicking her out into low income housing and she can figure out how to take care of herself.
google “Area Agency on Aging, Your City, Your State”.
Ask them for a needs evaluation for each elder. See what the alternatives are.
Sometimes just knowing you have a choice is helpful.
Does someone have her POA? She would qualify for Medicaid from the sounds of it. Low income housing? Does she have any health issues that would qualify her for residential placement?
Whose home is this? If not yours, you can move.