Our 28 year marriage went thru a financial and emotional adjustment when my 85 year old Mom moved in. I had to quit my job and be the full time caregiver for Mom. Mom needs help in moving around and memory but my husband and I both became caregivers for her so it was something we cannot prepare for. Friendships were affected to since our social life changed alot and we could not go out with couples like we used to since someone had to be home with Mom. Overall we have adjusted and are now better but it was quite a life changing experience. Am asking how everyone dealt with any of these situations. Thank you
As far as marriage, well, I'm single, so I don't have to worry about that part at all.
We were never the sort who socialized. His nose was always to the grindstone trying to keep the family business afloat. But we did occasionally go for getaways to casinos. We also went to our local watering hole and his favorite, Texas Roadhouse for steak. We were able to visit our children and grandchildren. That all stopped when he became bed bound and I am unable to get him out. It’s a solitary, depressing life and although I was forced by financial hardship to go back to work this year, I love my job and I’m glad to get out each day. Also on the plus side, I have been charged with the task of running the whole show here at home. I make all the decisions and handle absolutely everything that comes up. As someone who never had much self-confidence or feelings of self-worth, I’m very proud of myself.
You realize that you are exceptionally lucky to have a husband who pitches in, right? My husband wouldn’t have.
Perhaps invite your friends over for cards, games or even a barbecue. And, if there are sibs, maybe they could pitch in so you can go out.