My mom lives on her couch. She can’t walk or get up at all (it’s been like this for 15 months). She eats, drinks, watches tv, and yes even goes to the bathroom (on pads) on this couch. Her husband passed away 3 weeks ago. He was very ill for a long time. She just turned 76 and is of sound mind. We can’t force her to go to a facility. She has a few bed sores that we noticed when she slid off the couch and said her back hurts. The bed sores are pretty big in size - like the size of an orange.
She wants to live like this and my brothers and I have a routine to get her meals, do laundry, etc.
She refuses medical help, too. So, I would like to know at what point do we call 911 to get her to a hospital to treat the bed sores?