She is in late stage CHF, has dementia & is angry & scared. She won't take any new meds--such as anti-anxiety or sleeping meds--because she is afraid to sleep & thinks she will die or I & my siblings will kill her. Two shrinks refused to declare her unable to make her own medical decisions.
I have OCD maybe I can help. My daughter has it too and my Mom. What exactly are her OCD symptoms? And, sorry but want is CHF? Too bad about the doctors! We're they geriatric psychiatrists? If not I would try that route. If you can give me some examples of her OCD I can try and help.