He refuses to give me POA, and his bank accounts are in his name only. He's given large amounts of money to taxi drivers, not aware that he's doing it, $200 for a $11 taxi fare, and $105, ($100 bill plus $5 singles for similar taxi fare within a two weeks period. I'm told that since he is not willing to consent to POA, I should go to court for Guardianship. Any advice or suggestions on this situation? Don't know what to do.
Did you find your way over here yet?
As Shane mentioned, the people at dialysis maybe able to provide transportation for your husband.
He can take county transportation to dialysis and if no county transportation is available speak to the social worker at the dialysis center (every dialysis center is federally regulated and must have a MSW) as husband may qualify for taxi vouchers to get to and from dialysis. If he doesn’t qualify why does he have $100 bills on him going to dialysis? They could get stolen.
If my husband refused to give me access to his funds, I’d divorce him and get my 50% & leave. He’s being unreasonable & needs to get a dose of his own medicine.
He must be somewhat with it if he chooses to go to dialysis 3x/week and consenting to treatment. Has he been this selfish your entire marriage? Did you have to ask him for money? Are you afraid of him?
This irks me because as his wife you are an equal partner and for you to accept anything less is not standing up for your rights. Don’t be bullied by him.
If you do go for conservative status who’s going to pay? Make sure he does as it costs $5-10K.
Get yourself an attorney and get yourself free.
I agree with others - you need an attorney's advice on this. I'm not sure what you should do but get that phone call made ASAP so you can get this under control.