Its tough at times to remember he does not have cognitive ability to to process thoughts..
Today I was blamed for everything. Even stuff that had not touched.. texted sister I don't deserve this and went to McDonald to get my coffee and cone.. accidently ordered 2... Kept both but 2nd drop on floor created mess.. oh well it's not even Monday . I said nothing as I left early just see u Monday.
Feel proud of myself for not making this personal and keeping the greater good in mind.. but it was tough today
Days will differ. Sorry you had a tough day today.
Taking time out from that & other stressful situations is a very good strategy.
"No man is an island".
Accepting help from others can be hard. For elders. But also for caregivers.
A good plan is one that works for BOTH of you.
To work out how much is reasonable for *you* to help. Then Dad can add in *non-you* help for the rest.