I would see a good elder law attorney. I myself would not be doing the assets protection thing. I believe that a person's money is there to care for that person, not to pass on to heirs. Your best advice about this will come from an attorney.
I agree just wanted to make there!!.. money last as long as possible. I don't know you, but I've done and put up with a lot last 7 mths. I'm dealing with two parents. One with mild dementia, and the other is advanced.
My mom has an irrevocable trust. Its in her name but she cannot get to the money and other assets. My siblings and I can however get to it for her needs.
you, but I've done and put up with a lot last 7 mths. I'm dealing with two parents. One with mild dementia, and the other is advanced.