My grandfather has been diagnosed for about 6 years, my mom dropped everything to move in with him and take care of him. My aunt (who is not a good person) is now after all this time petitioning the court to gain guardianship over him. We dont know what to do.
If your Aunt does win guardianship, and if she is going for guardianship I would make it clear to her that you will not continue in caregiving in those circumstances and she will need to take over caregiving and guardianship on her own. I would watch what you wish for. This is a DIFFICULT job.