In January dad had medical issues and was in hospital and then rehab for 2 months. Thus was during covid so we could not see him, phone discussions not great as he was having issues communicating and nursing staff was abrupt and we could never get a hold of them it seemed. I am scared to know what happened. In April we-transferred him to a nursing home in our hometown. They are wonderful and dad has improved. Much. I really feel he just needed more rehab. He has come out of his fog and carries on discussions like before. However the hospitalization took a toll on his ambulatory ability. He needs help transferring, toileting and bathing. He is also diabetic. But he is the most sane person there. He misses his family and has no purpose in his life because of being there. He also knows his rights. I am being opposed by my siblings and spouse about wanting to even think about an alternative arrangement, and I feel and know he will die of loneliness sooner if he stays there. He misses mom terribly. Mom cannot take care of his needs..they moved to an independent living and there are no spare rooms for a caregiver. ( biggest mistake I made was letting their house sell). Can anyone relate to this and have advice?