Well, I tried to be nice. Ha! What a joke! Now I'm ready for all the less-than-kind ways to deal with her nonsense.
She just keeps getting worse.
Everything that we discuss, she backtracks on. Every time I am ready to start working on the next issue, she goes against everything we have agreed on.
Last Monday, I woke up to dirty diapers in the kitchen sink. The week continued with her increasing in ignorance, and ended yesterday with her telling me to get out of her life, red-faced screaming that she hates my guts, and calling me a c***!
I'm just so tired of it all that I don't even have the energy to try to repair anything with her. I'm ready to give up on all of it.
Today her PSW tried to intervene, and Mom smashed a plate at her feet. If that had cut her?!? The PSW is diabetic. She's not impressed. She has to report Mom. Mom may lose her worker now (again). And I am not looking for a new one for her. In fact, if it gets reported to the LHIN she may lose her hours - no one wants their workers in harms way!
Tomorrow is my birthday. I told my husband I just want a quiet day. A little peace. Maybe I'll run off to a hotel. After that, I will start making calls, and push for some kind of assessment.