My mother is in pretty good health and is very sharp mentally, but as she gets older (currently in low 80s), I'm increasingly concerned about her living alone in her home. I'm not saying I want to put her into an assisted living facility (I don't) or that she needs a caregiver (also don't think that's the case at present) but I think I should probably take some proactive steps to give me peace of mind and protect her. For example, possibly installing grab bars. I know the term "Age in place" is a common one and I'm wondering if anyone here knows of any good websites with resources for aging in place? Would like to know what products I should consider getting, if I should consider doing work on my mother's home (only 1/2 bath on first floor), amongst other things. I've never been through this before and would love any advice from folks who have been in similar situations and sought out assistance to ensure the safety of their aging parents. Thank you.
I would advise that you begin laying track for the future. Look at moms finances, medical insurance, does she have a will, end of life documents? Do you have POA? You will probably end up taking care of bills and utilities. Collect all the contact info for this.
look into care facilities in her area and home help companies. Be ready when there’s a crisis.
I hate to be Debbie downer but this just goes one way. Don’t find yourself down the road with no idea how to deal with serious aging issues.
For my Dad, he was now around people of his own age group, or as he would like to say "lot of new ears to hear all of my stories" :) He loved having weekly housekeeping and linen service which was part of the rent. And really enjoyed the restaurant style dining.
One benefit that made my Dad feel safe was that the complex had a nurse on duty around the clock. All of this wasn't cheap, but the equity in his house paid for his new environment. He said to me he wished he would have move there years earlier.
For your Mom to stay at home and what is needed, you can also call your local Council on Aging to find a Occupational Therapist who can visit your Mom's home and give you and her ideas on how to make the house safer.
https://www.seniorlink.com/blog/50homemodificationtips
Try searching the web for something like "home needs to age in place".
AgingCare also has several articles that you may find helpful
https://www.agingcare.com/search?term=aging+in+place+articles